
Parents helping Adult children
The Bank of Mum and Dad is ‘always’ open. Notably, three in five (61%) parents of over-18s are helping their children. However this support is harming their parents’ ability to save for retirement. According to Standard Life recent research.
This research1 shows how life’s pivotal moments can shape and often disrupt, people’s long-term financial journeys. Such 75% of parents of over-18s who provide such support say it has affected them financially. A quarter (27%) have dipped into their savings. And one in seven (15%) have or are planning to delay their retirement.
The financial support given by parents of adult children takes many forms. Over 26% are helping them with everyday living costs such as rent, bills and food. A further 13% are giving them a helping hand onto or up the property ladder. Similarly, 13% are funding one-off purchases such as cars or household items.
These findings come as student finances continue to dominate public debate. Particularly around the long-term burden posed by ‘Plan 2’ student loans. Notably, their impact on people’s finances long after they have finished university. Some parents are stepping in to help ease the pressure on their student children. With 11% helping to cover university fees.
Parents to the rescue
Generosity comes at a financial cost. Over 74% of over-18s parents’ who provide financial support say this has affected them financially. Over a quarter (27%) have dipped into savings as a result. A fifth (18%) say they are saving less for the long term. Around 12% say this means they have contributed less to their pension than they had hoped. One in seven (15%) expect to retire later than planned, Hence, leading them to have a more modest retirement (15%). Also being more reliant on the State Pension (15%).
A love without limits
Despite the financial pressures, the unconditional love parents feel for their children prevails. Over half (57%) say they expect nothing in return. Two in five (39%) say they are happy with their decision to provide financial support.
These parents cite a strong sense of responsibility (46%). Together with a desire to protect their children from debt or financial hardship. A third (36%) say they want to help their children achieve long-term financial security. A further 11% see support today as a form of early gifting for inheritance tax purposes. Ultimately, ahead of pensions coming into scope of inheritance tax from 2027.
Furthermore, 15% plan to prioritise enjoying their money in retirement over leaving an inheritance2. Priorities and needs can change over time. Parents are having to balance between supporting the next generation and enjoying their own later life.
Thinking Ahead
Subsequently, parents with younger children are thinking ahead and starting early. Even small amounts can help build financial resilience for the next generation. While keeping your own long-term plans on track. Junior ISA’s (JISA’s) and even child pensions are a great way to do this. Moreover, providing a tax-efficient way to give children a head start. In summary, the potential benefits from compound interest or investment growth from the earliest moment possible.
Parent helping adult children. For help with your financial planning and retirement goals. From personal advice to peace of mind contact us today. Call 01603 957599 for your free initial consultation.
1 – Research conducted by Opinium between 15 January and 21 January 2026 among 4,000 UK adults. Results are weighted to be nationally representative of the UK adult population.
2- Opinium surveyed 2,000 UK adults nationwide between 11th – 14th November. Quotas and post-weighting were applied to the sample to make the dataset representative of the UK adult population.




